Friday, February 13, 2015

8 months already!

It seems like I was just writing my 7 month post about Mitchell and now here we are at 8 months.  8 MONTHS!  I get a little choked up thinking about it.  It’s all going so fast.  He’s growing and changing so fast.  I’m caught between wanting to shout “Stop!  Slow down!” and knowing that I need to encourage and help him to learn more each day and not hold him back.  I suppose that’s a feeling that most parents can understand. 
Mitch is doing amazing!  He’s big and strong and so happy.  He can still be extremely reserved, especially in new environments, but he usually warms up fairly quickly.  Once he’s comfortable – look out!  He’s a man on the move and everything is fascinating to him.  He loves anything with a cord or string.  I was sitting on the ground playing with him and talking on the phone with someone and Mitch was playing.  He was surrounded by toys, but he kept himself entertained by playing with the drawstring on my pajamas.  And the old-school toy phone that we had for Evie that she never really liked – he loves it because it has a string he can chew.  He loves pureed baby food, especially the veggies to my delight.  We’ve given him some puffs and a few pieces of rice and he’s interested in them, but not much makes it into his stomach.  He’s still working on the fine motor skills needed to pick up the tiny pieces of food and put it into his mouth.  He’s pulling up on everything.  Our boy loves to stand and we’re fairly certain it won’t be long until he’s walking.  He’s so curious about everything and he often gets himself into trouble.  He had pulled stuff down on himself, bonked his head and fall down a few times.  But he gets right back up and does it again.  Mitchell has started babbling more and more.  He loves it when we ‘talk’ back to him and he can mimic a couple of sounds (da, ba, ma).  I think he’s starting to use language to get our attention when he wants us.  Most of the time, he will just whine and cry if he wants to be picked up, but the other day he was in the pack’n play in our room while I was helping Evie get dressed after her bath.  He was not happy to be in there and he kept screeching and crying and then I heard “Ma!” a few times.  I figured it was my imagination, but then Evie said “Mama!  Mitchell just said ‘mama’!”  Smart boy!

And speaking of Evie, no post about Mitchell would be complete without mentioning how much he is adored by his big sister.  She has continually amazed us with how good she is with and to him.  She speaks so sweetly to him, saying things like “How are you big boy?” or “Look at you Mitchell-Man”.  She will rush over to him when he’s crying to croon “You are my sunshine” and softly stroke his head.  She never forgets to include him, and although she can get frustrated as his obviously lack of understanding sometimes, she has displayed a great amount of patience for someone her age.  Little bro loves his big sister just as much.  He follows her around the house, is always in her business and constantly smiles at her.  I pray that they share this bond forever.

8 months is proving to be a wonderful age.  Our amazing little boy makes us smile everyday.  And while we wish he would learn to sleep a little more soundly at night, I tell myself to cherish even that time.  Children grow so fast and soon enough, he won’t need me to rock him to back to sleep.  So while being awake at 3am night after night isn’t ideal, it’s not forever either.  The last 8 months passed by in a blink and so will the next.  So I’m grateful to have the time to snuggle my baby boy, just me and him.
Happy 8 months Baby Boy!