Friday, August 12, 2016

Weddings and Flower Girls


Last month, my cousin Morgan got married and Evie was the flower girl.  Evie was pretty excited about the whole thing, but I think her excitement stemmed more from getting to actually go to the wedding than getting to be in it.  I don’t think she quite understood what was going on most of the time.

She got to go to the Bridal Shower with me back in May.  She loved that it was just girls.  And she loved playing the games (thanks to everyone who let her win the bouquet!). 

The night before the wedding, I took Evie over to Xavier for rehearsal and she met Emmett, the ring bearer.  They hit it off right away and marched down the aisle like they’d done it million times before.  They were so good at marching that they passed everyone up and marched right up the steps to where the alter was.  That got a big laugh.  Dinner was at New Riff Distillery in Newport.  It is such a neat venue!! Pat had just driven down from Columbus after work that evening so he met Evie and I there with my parents.  While we waited, Evie and I had a little happy hour, just us girls.  I relished getting to spend this time with her because it doesn’t happen all that often.  It struck me how old she is now as I watched her nibbling her snacks and sipping her drink.   She kept looking up at me and grinning.  I think she liked having me all to herself too.   I was particularly glad to have to this time once my parents got there and she mostly ignored me in favor of Kiki and Pops.  Dinner was fantastic and we all enjoyed turning our tongues blue with the icing from the Xavier cake.  Evie was thrilled when Morgan gave her silver jewelry box and a heart-shaped locket with her name engraved on it.



The next morning, Evie and I headed over to the Dorsey’s house to get her ready for the wedding.  Evie was nervous around so many new people, but everyone treated her like a little princess.  She got a silky, flowered robe to wear and she got her hair done.  She even got to wear a tiny bit of make-up.  She loved getting her picture taken with all of the bridesmaids and Morgan.  They were so sweet to her. 

Evie couldn’t wait to see Morgan in her dress.  She thought it was the prettiest thing she’d ever seen and she’s told me more than once since that day that Morgan was the most beautiful ‘wedding lady’ ever.  I had one moment of panic when Evie decided to get blue crayon on the sash of her dress, but, thankfully, cooler heads prevailed and one of Morgan’s bridesmaids helped me to flip the sash so it didn’t show.  One of the most exciting parts of the wedding for Evie was getting to ride on the party bus to the ceremony.  She was so happy she was bouncing in her seat, and when the music started playing and everyone was singing, she was in heaven.


The ceremony itself went off without a hitch.  Evie and Emmett did great and everyone in the wedding party looked wonderful.  Unfortunately Mitchell decided to freak out as soon as he saw me so I didn’t get to see Evie walk down the aisle because I was too busy grabbing him from Pat and trying to calm him down.  Pat ended up taking him out of the church for the rest of mass to prevent any more incidents. 



After the ceremony was over, we had a few hours to kill before the reception started so we went to Arthur’s in Hyde Park for some food. 


Then we headed over to The Monastery in Mt. Adams to party the night away.   The kids stressed me out a little during the speeches and dinner because they didn’t want to sit still.  Regardless, the food was really good and, once the dancing started, I didn’t worry as much about them being disruptive.  We’ve never taken the kids to a wedding and it was a little nerve-racking for me.  I was very, very grateful for the help my family gave to us.  They were seriously wonderful and I can’t thank them enough.  We all had a blast dancing.  The kids were hilarious.  Mitch was break dancing and Evie joined in the Cupid Shuffle.  Pat and Evie even shared a Daddy Daughter Dance.  So cute!



It was a great day.  The wedding was beautiful.  The reception was fun.  And a wonderful time was had by all!











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